MALE MASTURBATION, HOW TO MASTURBATE PROPERLY AND MAKE HIM CUM EVERY TIME?

Used during foreplay, in a solo session or during non-penetrative sex, penis masturbation is a gentle game of seduction and exploration to add to your range of naughty games.

It is a delicate practice and an art in its own right which requires finesse and skill. In a way, an iron fist in a velvet glove. Indeed, the penis being an extremely sensitive and delicate area, the male sex requires to be gently pampered to better flourish in the pleasures of caress.

In this article, we share our best tips for masturbating your lover and turning his head. How to masturbate him properly? What lubricant should I use to masturbate? How to vary the pleasures and take it straight to the unexplored confines of the male orgasm? You will know absolutely everything about the art of masturbating a penis.

12 RULES YOU NEED TO KNOW TO MASTER THE SUBTLE ART OF MALE MASTURBATION

12 RULES YOU NEED TO KNOW TO MASTER THE SUBTLE ART OF MALE MASTURBATION

Summarizing masturbation to a simple back and forth movement more or less rapid would be very simplistic and yet, for too many men, it still remains an automatism amounting to grabbing one's penis until ejaculation follows. We offer you 13 tips for masturbating him well and surprising him .

1 - Enthusiasm

If there is one sine qua none condition to respect when we talk about masturbation, and any sexual act in general, it is to indulge in it with enthusiasm , a lot of enthusiasm. Enthusiastic consent is the fire that ignites the intimacy of two beings, transforming a simple physical relationship into a magical and transcendent union . Enthusiasm is that spark which ignites passion, which awakens the senses and which pushes each and every person to give body and soul to the other. Only practice masturbation on your partner if you have desired and consented to pleasure them in this way.

2 – Pamper your partner’s penis in its entirety

During romantic onanism, each part of the penis deserves special attention and care. Carefully exploring the intimacy of your loved one will allow you to take them to the limits of pleasure. Here are some examples of erogenous zones to target during your masturbation session.

1. The shaft of the penis , all in length, is sensitive to pressure and back and forth movements. She reacts to every caress, every touch.
2. The glans , at the top of the penis, is a particularly sensitive erogenous zone.
3. The crown that surrounds it is also a source of intense pleasure, thanks to the gentle caresses and light pressures.
4. The perineum , the area between the base of the penis and the scrotum, is an often overlooked erogenous zone. By exerting pressure on this area, this indirectly stimulates the prostate and increases the pleasure of masturbation tenfold. Dare to experience prostate pleasures . They are no longer too taboo today even if they are less frequent and clearly cataloged as a practice strictly reserved for homosexual pleasure: overall, anal masturbation is one of the natural ways to explore oneself and masturbate at one's convenience. The gently massaged prostate will undeniably offer you orgasms whose reputation is well established, it has even been given the name P-spot .
5. Finally the testicles must also be in your viewfinder, they also deserve their share of attention. Dare to venture off the beaten track, the testicles are one of the most sensitive areas of the male body. They deserve the greatest delicacy in the game of caresses. They enjoy being lightly squeezed and supported by one hand , to feel gentle and deep pleasure.

3 - Vary movements, rhythm and pressure

When it comes to penis masturbation, it's all about rhythm, pressure and movement . Going back and forth too slowly is guaranteed to cause boredom and your partner risks falling asleep! As for quick express masturbation, it risks hurting him: calm down and go slowly but surely. You are not a machine, and neither is he. Do not tighten too hard or pull down too much. If you have an iron fist in a velvet glove, it will be hand-stitched.
There are a multitude of ways to explore your partner's penis during masturbation. By exploring them, you prolong the pleasure and provide a whole range of exquisite sensations.
1. Start by gently squeezing the base of the penis without movement , to create a pleasant feeling of pressure. Gently slide your fingers up and down along the penis for more connection.
2. During the back and forth movements, you can intensify the pressure as you go up , and release it as you go down, to offer a varied palette of sensations.
3. You can also mix twists and back-and-forth movements for a whirlwind of pleasure that will make your partner shiver. Dare to make circular movements without rushing with the palm of your hand, eagerly running your fingers over his entire body to better titillate him! Your fairy fingers will go as they please where he hopes most and least expects it.
4. You can vary the intensity and precision of the stimulation by alternating between a complete grip of the shaft with your hand, and a finer grip using only the space between your thumb and index finger.
5. When the orgasm approaches , at the climax of shared pleasure, it's up to you to win... mutually! At the moment of orgasm, concentrate on the crown of the glans penis and squeeze it firmly at its base ; it should not move an inch between your hands. You can just as easily increase the pace and maintain the same pressure, to increase the excitement to the point of ecstasy.
6. Also remember to use your left hand , your right hand or even both simultaneously . If you are not ambidextrous, nothing serious, changing hands allows you to learn to manage your excitement and break the routine . All variations are good and should be tried to offer or treat yourself to a good bowl of eroticism.
7. Endurance requires, repeat all your movements and synchronize them as you wish.

4 - Make the pleasure last by practicing edging
Edging is a stimulation technique that involves moving closer to orgasm, then moving away from it , several times in a row, before finally reaching climax. It is an excellent technique which has the merit of being useful and beneficial to both the couple and yourself.
To prolong your partner's pleasure and offer him an explosive orgasm, change pace when you feel him wavering under your fingers, and then start again again. If it is almost too late, block the arrival of sperm by exerting pressure on the base of the penis , the objective being to increase the excitement to its peak . This game will make the fun last … for your greatest pleasure. You have understood, edging is a sensual dance with pleasure , a subtle game that flirts with the limits of ecstasy.
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5 - The importance of the gaze

The look is a silent language that says a lot about feelings and emotions. In the intimacy of a romantic relationship, it takes on capital importance because it allows you to communicate a multitude of sensations without even uttering a word . The look can be tender, passionate, languorous when it is naughty, and during masturbation, it can considerably increase the excitement of the loved one and send him over the edge in an instant. So think about eye games which can be more powerful than you suspect. You can also deprive it of a sense with our satin blindfold , the ultimate in erotic masturbation accessories. Faced with him, you have to play seduction! Men are inveterate voyeurs who get excited based on what they see : their way of seeing is a bit primal and animal, but that's how it is. Male fantasies have a predominantly visual dimension . A look straight into the eyes, a beautifully low-cut shiny satin dress, sexy lingerie with elegant lace, an intimate part of your body within reach, what could be better? Anything that can catch a man's eye will provoke an emotional outpouring coming straight from his overflowing imagination. Maddening, all these fantasies of Monsieur so deliciously tasted on Madame's body. And vice versa perfectly authorized, that goes without saying.

6 – Think about caresses

Explore other erogenous zones , your body has tons of them. On the way: use your fingers for a few caresses on the lower abdomen, the secondary erogenous zones accompany the tempo . The neck, the thighs, everything must go there. A hand caressing the fabric of a pair of pants, a friction on the pillow, a hand placed on the penis; foreplay is a subtle way to amplify the build-up of arousal before direct stimulation of the penis. Take your time, touch him gradually, which will build up the excitement. Start low and slow for pleasures to come that are sharper and more powerful. If you have one hand available when you masturbate your partner, consider using the other to caress their body. Caresses are a way of communicating with each other's bodies and each of them can awaken unique and intense sensations. Don't hesitate to let your hand slide and travel across your other half's stomach, chest, buttocks or neck. They can alone cause an explosion of pleasure , and coupled with masturbation, are a real delight. To go further, dare to play seduction and bring him the holy grail on a platter by caressing yourself while he masturbates.

7 – Dare to role play

Why not break the routine of the quotient and nourish your imagination with erotic scenarios that know how to adapt to the circumstances? She is famously beautiful and you are her butler! Stuck in an elevator, on the washing machine, blindfolded, hands tied, chain and ball around the ankles, it will be up to each of them to write the scenario.

8 – Kissing

If the position you are in allows you to reach and taste your partner's lips, take the opportunity to cover them with kisses. Kisses are the universal language of love and passion, a way to communicate deep emotions without saying a word. They allow you to listen to the breathing of others and therefore feel the slightest change of breath and excitement. Also remember to kiss your partner's neck which can be a very erogenous zone. Combining masturbation with oral sex will only increase the level of pleasure. In the YESforLOV gourmet cosmetics range, you can find massage lubricants flavored with green tea pineapple or apricot peach.

9 – Listen to your reactions

When caressing your partner, it is essential to pay close attention to their reactions . Watch his reactions and watch his body language . Indeed, each person is unique, with their own preferences and their own erogenous zones. What may be pleasant for one person may not be pleasant for another . Listening to your partner's reactions allows you to adapt caresses according to the moment. Is his breathing quickening? Are his thrusts intensifying? Do you feel his muscles tense? Ecstasy is surely not far away. Hold the rhythm to accompany it until the apotheosis.

10 - Get off the beaten track, multiply techniques

Masturbating your partner means experiencing a moment of sharing and complicity allowing you to explore your sexuality and test all its flavors. Why not include a little originality in your private moment? For example, you can caress your loved one's penis with other parts of your body : breasts, stomach, feet, forearms, or with both hands. You can also play with temperatures . By running your hand under hot or cold water just before your intimate caresses, you will make your partner experience new sensations.
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11 – Let him guide you

Who better than your partner to give you instructions on how to give him pleasure? Don't hesitate to ask him for directions on what he likes. Whether it’s the rhythm, the gesture or the pressure. Ask him in advance to give you instructions while you take care of him, it can be deliciously exciting. Your partner can also take your hand in theirs to set the pace . It may be stupid but a good masturbation for two begins with extra communication so why not offer to accompany you on this long journey towards the loving ecstasy that you both want.

12 – Increase gentleness and vigilance

It is important to remember that gentleness is essential to give pleasure to this intimate and fragile area. It is therefore essential to be careful of any object likely to scratch or irritate it , such as nails, rings and bracelets.

Your best ally, intimate lubricant and masturbation creams

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Why use lubricant during masturbation?

Lube opens up a whole range of possible pleasures! Using it is the BABA of successful masturbation , as we saw in the hilarious scenes of American Pie. Man does not lubricate naturally , that's a fact. Intimate lubricants facilitate the contact of your hands on the penis and provide comfort and natural sliding sensations which indirectly reproduce intimate secretions. Both for comfort and pleasure of the penis, the special masturbation lubricant is your best ally for your personal sexual well-being.
Available in gel or in the form of masturbation cream , masturbation gels are strongly recommended in the practice of masturbation. For what ? Because your penis has very thin and delicate skin that requires attention, care and delicacy with every step. By using a lubricant, you will be able to perform gentle, sensual and smooth caresses while considerably reducing friction .
Whether you are a real gooner, a simple occasional amateur of solo sex or a beginner, remember this: intimate lubricant is ideal for lubricating and making sex more pleasant . You can choose a water-based lubricant for a more fluid and natural feel, or a silicone-based one for long-lasting glide. At YESforLOV, we invite you to test this advice for less than one euro with our samples of intimate lubricants. For more pleasure, dare to use natural lubricant with stimulating effects: our stimulating heat lubricant provides a warming sensation that pleasantly reproduces the heat of molten bodies. This intimate lubricant is also available in a cold version to give you chills on the mucous membranes.

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At the dawn of increasingly fashionable solo-sex, intimate caresses are an invitation to explore oneself and discover others, to give as well as to receive. Let yourself go in this surge of sensuality and passion, masturbation is a unique experience that can also be shared between two people to better love and renew themselves. You now have all the keys to exploring the desire of your loved one; it's up to you, ladies and gentlemen, to make good use of them. To go further in the art of masturbation, immerse yourself in our sex article which relates the benefits and risks that are involved in the pleasure of male masturbation!